That’s what the neighbor said on TV. Another woman is dead, killed this morning in a nearby county by her husband and people are shocked because it doesn’t happen where they live. Sound familiar? It sure does to me. I’ve been there and even said those words. People in my former neighborhood weren’t out brawling in the front yard with their spouses, let alone being abused or even killed. But behind closed doors….
When I finally began to deal with my situation, to feel it was perhaps time to speak up and speak out, one of the things that kept circulating through my mind was “Who would believe me?” Look at us – we looked pretty good. We had the house, a great house, a great yard, a great pool. I had a cleaning service, a lawn service, help with the laundry, help with the cooking. I had jewelry, clothes, the fur coat, awesome vacations, vehicles, the grand piano. I gave fabulous parties in my fabulous home. We were the go-to people in our church to get things done, in the pew every week 20 minutes early. Who would believe me? Look at us….
Jesus described us perfectly, though. He wasn’t addressing a domestic situation. But He could have been standing on my deck, looking through the patio doors into my beautiful kitchen when He referred to white-washed graves full of dead men’s bones and all unclean things. (Matthew 23:27) We did indeed look beautiful on the outside. Who would believe me?
The neighbor being interviewed on TV today was shocked. “It doesn’t happen in a neighborhood like this,” and another woman is dead at the hands of her spouse or significant other.
This isn’t the post I had planned for today, but I still struggle. When I hear about another abused or murdered woman my heart aches for her. Did she have children, children in that home? children who feared for their mom’s safety? I sit here now in tears. Did she wonder if anyone would believe her?
And though I wondered aloud earlier this week about whether I was on the right path with this big dream of Her Father’s Homestead, I know in my heart that there is a need, greater than most people even want to acknowledge, for this dream of mine. And I believe as firmly as when I first arrived here that this old farm will be the place of healing for others that it has been for me. There is hope and there is healing and there is wholeness. I thank the Lord daily for bringing me here. And now it’s my turn to give back.
If you have a need, reach out, I will listen and I will believe you. Fill out the Contact form; I will respond. Together we can find a way. Blessings……