A quick peruse of Roget’s online Thesaurus gives many synonyms for the word hopeful. My favorite? There are several, but blithe and buoyant just kind of roll off the tongue. I love words and languages, and words, as I am known for saying, matter. And frankly, I’ve been witnessing some challenges with words. Are the challenges with words alone – improper usage, negative, harsh words – or with life situations or attitudes, the deeper issues? All of those apply and they’re all valid to some extent. Ask my girls – “Mom, I’m sick,” was likely to draw the response, “Keep saying that and you probably will be.” A student who makes the mistake of saying, “I can’t do that,” is likely to hear, “Keep telling yourself that you can’t and it’ll probably be true.” I love having an eight-year-old tell me, “Miss LeeAnn, I’m having a challenge with this music.”
I can almost hear the eyes rolling 🙂 Here we go again, the mind over matter speech, the positive thinking approach. You bet. It matters. After I titled this post I downloaded the video for my current Bible study, and sure enough, there’s one of my favorite Bible teachers, Beth Moore, talking about hope, being hopeful, and using words that DO matter. One of those little Sparkles of confirmation. And sure enough, my ErinLee called and said, Mom, “I’m getting sick, I mean, I’m fighting off an illness.” Words matter. How much better to be fighting off illness than to be sick or worse yet, feeling “awful”. Say the words, hear them. Much better to be fending off than succumbing to or worse.
Even more important when challenged by an emotion like fear. Do not, for one second, give fear a foothold in your mind. For sure never, ever give it a voice! I am NOT afraid, fear not, I will fear no evil, on and on. Better yet, leave the word- fear- out completely. Try: I am feeling strong; I am trusting the Lord to protect me. I have EVERY confidence. Get the picture?
Who cares? I do. There are a variety of books on the subject, among them, The Tongue, a Creative Force by Charles Capps. There have been many teachings and there are many people who believe in the power of words.
Try it – make it a game in your family until it becomes habit in your life. Choose your words carefully – to encourage a positive attitude, to change a less-than-happy mood, to drive out fear and/or negativity, to overcome challenges, to accomplish great things, fulfill your heart’s desire.
Words matter and I’m most hopeful that you’ll agree with me and give it your best shot 🙂 à plus tard….